Wednesday, February 11, 2004

Conquering the Calgary Peaks

Continuing with my story, when I found out about his affair, I just had to call her.  I had tried doing that the day I saw his phone bill, but she pretended she couldn't hear me and hung up the phone.  Later on he and I together called her (yes I did make him do that, as shameful as it feels to admit it) and I got a word or two in as did she.

But because I felt I hadn't suffered enough, I suppose, I called her yet again.  This time to find out more about the reasons why all this happened in the first place. She and I spoke for hours, and many times since.  We fought, tried to one-up each other, even threatened each other with lawsuits... but in the end we became friends. 

It's not that I am crazy, stupid, a sucker or masochistic, it's just that I see things differently.  I know she did not set out to hurt me personally.  Both of them knew it was wrong to have an affair but they were selfish.  Extremely selfish.

 

Continued...

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