Update

Last night was nutty.

First, I got a call from a friend of mine who said I should really keep an eye on this fever in case it went up.  Then she called to tell me her mother-in-law was a nurse and she said I should go to the Dr./Hospital immediately.  So I started making plans...  The kids can go spend the night with a neighbor, maybe another neighbor, call Nora to come help, or her sister Matty, called my husband to tell him I was going, all of it.

Then I told my friend I was going to call our Dr. to see what he thought and he pretty much begged me not to go to the ER.  He said if the fever got to 101.4 then I should call him immediately...  He would try to meet me to give me a D&C so I wouldn't have to depend on just anyone to take care of such a sensitive matter...

I felt quite badly for a while, but eventually the fever broke.  I slept as I hadn't in a few days (didn't wake up once during the night), and woke up perfectly fine...  Today I had no fever at all until the afternoon, and now it's just like last night.

So I'm waiting to see if it goes to 101.4.  Hopefully not until sometime after tomorrow morning, as the love of my life arrives at 7:30am.  Plans are already in place for the kids to dissappear from about 9:30 on.

Because between the "possible" miscarriage, then the "definite" miscarriage and what will be the "actual" miscarriage, it's just entirely too long since I've been with my husband, I'm going nuts.  Alltogether it will end up being 3 to 4 months...

Yes, the Dr. did say that having intercourse could give me an infection (if I already don't have one), but I figured I could do it, and then get a D&C.  It seems crazy/irresponsible, I know, but I'm desperately in love and the nightly dreams are killing me...!

I always thought being both a Scorpio and a Latina was a double whammy...  now, I'm at my peak??? 

Gabriela